Jammie. Fucking old. Cancer. INFJ. Geek/Nerd. Potterhead. Feminist. Queer. I am that Weird aunt that everyone has. Love art, fall, mermaids, cute and spoopy stuff.
If a chronically ill or disabled person has not asked for advice on how to manage their situation… I can absofuckinglutely guarantee they aren’t going to want to hear your “helpful suggestions”.
Jewish and Muslim people go on Chopped and are made to cook with pork and they make it work, one vegan goes on and refuses to use any meat products he’s given and they have an all veggie episode for him.